Dear Sweets*

Written by Sweets*

Dear Sweets*,

I showed my friend an antique necklace and she begged to wear it for the rest of the day. 

I finally gave it to her and forgot to take it back so I waited until the next day when I would 

see her again. On the next day, I asked for the necklace back but she said she doesn't have it.

Watch should I do?

Oh my dear Kuri ≧◡≦,

I am afraid your friend is not a very responsible person and that your necklace might be gone. 

My only advice for you to do is to give your friend a week or so to look for your necklace and return it

to you. But if for some reason she doesn't find it, even though some things can never be replaced, for

example, an antique necklace, she might just have to pay you back with money.

This probably won't resolve the matter in a very satisfactory way since you have lost something 

that was very valuable to you and she showed so little responsibility for your kind gesture of letting her

wear it. But at this point that is the least she can do. She needs to be taught a lesson that when she

borrows something from someone, she has to be extra careful and responsible, and the only way I see

her learning is by replacing your valuable necklace with another one as valuable as the one she lost.

I suggest you be more careful from now on to whom you lend your things, especially the special and valuable ones. Not everyone feels they have to be responsible for borrowed items that get lost or damaged while they are in their possession, to them it's not a big deal. I truly hope your friend finds your necklace and returns it to you. <3

I did some thimg to my best frainds sis and she got all mad i i felt really bad 

 i said sorry and the hate me now.

Awww ☆Emma Taco☆,

Although I don't know what you did wrong, I am certain that you are really sorry and you must have learned your lesson from this mistake. Just make sure you don't make the mistake again in the future. Trust me when I tell you that they really don't hate you even if they act like it.... hate is a very strong word. But you have to understand that they feel angry with you because they probably feel hurt.

Apologizing to them was the right thing to do. Now all you can do is give them time and space for 

them to heal. Maybe in no time, you all will be good friends again but if this doesn't happen, you have

to accept and respect them if they decide not to. Still, you can use all this as a lesson you learned and

that is not to do things that might hurt others. Now you know that this type of behavior may cause you to lose good friends.... Love you sweetie. <3

Dear Sweets*,

I lost most of my friends this year :(. It's because I dont talk to them, or I ignore them. I

 don't know what to do! :( How can I get them back?

Hello P s y c h e ♥,

I am sorry to hear this. The good thing is that you recognized why this is happening and you are taking

full responsibility for it. That is a good start :) Now the next step for you to take is to apologize to each

one of them and asked them to give you another chance. Hey...everyone deserves a second chance in

life!!!

Be prepared though that some of your former friends might have moved on and won't be interested in renewing a friendship with you again. That is their right and you'll have to respect that. But for the ones that believe like I do in giving second chances, show them how grateful you are for being your friends again by treating them with more respect. Don't make the same mistakes with them or any new friendships you'll get in the future. <333

Dear Sweets*,

I am your fan and love reading your blog. But where is Romeo?

He have not been writing for a long time.

Thank you sweets* for being an angel for the picos who needs help.

Thanks.

Hello again my dear I love Sweets*,

My dear friend Romeo has been very busy with school and real life :)

I too missed his amazing articles but we must understand that his real life requires a lot of him and that should be his priority. I just saw him a few days ago and I was very happy to see that he is doing so well. Romeo has a very special place in my heart and I wish him the very best in life <3

Know that Romeo and all the other Pico Perfect writers have full access to the blog and are always welcome to write again any time they want. :)))

Thanks for replying : ) my first friend on pico is the one who invited me to join..about 2 months ago..

she was with 3 of her closest friends in the pico parks she said she was leavign in a little but i can still

join her friends I did..but only to be rudly insulted and ditched by 2 of them 1 stayed and talked to me

but he said he didnt notice anything when i asked him whats with them.my friend has a good heart...but

to her those friends can do no wrong ;( what do i do sweets..

Dear NOMsicles,

I got to tell you this but I went through exactly the same thing you did with one of my former best friends. It is really hurtful when you are not believed by your best friend when you tell him/her how you have been treated by some of his/her other friends. It almost feels like you have to prove to them that what you are saying is true... as if you need to defend yourself.

But what I learned from that experience, and I'll share it with you now in hopes that it might help you, is that your friend does indeed have a good heart and they will always take into consideration how their relationship with each friend. I think that since they have a good friendship with these people, they assumed it is the same for everyone else. So when they hear that someone or something bad happened, it is hard for them to believe it.

Sweetie, our friends' minds are set up on how they view each person and no matter what you tell them, they are the only ones that'll decide who they want to believe and there is nothing... and believe me... nothing you can do to change their minds. The more you'll try, the more hurt you will feel.

I suggest that you keep your friendship with your good friend separated from these other friends. When you and your friend are together try to avoid any subject that has to do with them. <3

Hi Sweets!

I always go to your room with hope that i would see you, but i never did. Nevertheless, i always bring my torquiose. It seems to enjoy the presence of your pet Picolly. Hope to see you someday ^_^ 

I always visit your blog. God bless!

My dearest にゃんーちゃん,

I am sorry we haven't run into each other yet. It would be a real honor to meet you someday soon. I wasn't visiting Pico that much but I am starting to go every day now. Sometimes I just stay in my room gathering my mail and rarely go out for props. I hope I'll have more time to stay longer in the future and mingle again with my Picos.

Take care and don't forget to smile.... SuPeR LoVe YoU <333

OMG! U U U REPLIED ME..okay my prob is: No1 likes me in pico..they call me pig )':

Hi ๖ۣۜ♥|ανєи∂єя๖,

I try to answer as many letters as I can on a daily basis. At this point, I am getting around 20 Pico letters every day. Many are Picos that ask for my help but want to keep it just between us, so they receive my advice in a private letter instead of my blog.

Now coming to your problem.... some Picos can be very mean and they'll call us names. I've been called pig too so many times. But what I do is I ignore these people. Sweetie, name-calling is very common everywhere. You must not listen to them because there are only words that have no truth to them. When these people call you names... keep thinking to yourself, "I am very special because God created me!". Now, these beautiful words are the ones that are true, real, and the ones you should listen to. <3

Awwww, thank you my dearest ϟＦ ｒ ａ ｎ ｃ ｅϟ  <333

I hope u will keep advice people <3 u make me feel better and not only me will feel like that everyone

will feel better with ur advice <3 i love u sweet mom<3 "Ciel Shieru"

Thank you so much my dear Ciel Shieru, If I can help at least one person a day in a big or small way, my day wasn't lived in vain <333

A Letter Of A Different Kind: 

Not all the letters or messages I receive come from friendly people.

OOOH! Lissy25,

I am truly sorry to hear that your Pico husband has divorced you. But sweetie, I think you are aiming

your anger towards the wrong person and place. What did my poor house and I ever do to your 

marriage to destroy it? But I am not mad at you for calling me "bych" :(  I know you are just letting

your anger out because you feel hurt which I totally understand. If you ever need someone to talk to I

am always waiting with an open heart. <333