Sunday, July 31, 2011

Dear Sweets*

Written by Sweets*


Dear Sweets*,
I showed my friend an antique necklace and she begged to wear it for the rest of the day. 
I finally gave it to her and forgot to take it back so I waited until the next day when I would 
see her again. On the next day, I asked for the necklace back but she said she doesn't have it.
Watch should I do?

Oh my dear Kuri ≧◡≦,
I am afraid your friend is not a very responsible person and that your necklace might be gone. 
My only advice for you to do is to give your friend a week or so to look for your necklace and return it
to you. But if for some reason she doesn't find it, even though some things can never be replaced, for
example, an antique necklace, she might just have to pay you back with money.

This probably won't resolve the matter in a very satisfactory way since you have lost something 
that was very valuable to you and she showed so little responsibility for your kind gesture of letting her
wear it. But at this point that is the least she can do. She needs to be taught a lesson that when she
borrows something from someone, she has to be extra careful and responsible, and the only way I see
her learning is by replacing your valuable necklace with another one as valuable as the one she lost.

I suggest you be more careful from now on to whom you lend your things, especially the special and valuable ones. Not everyone feels they have to be responsible for borrowed items that get lost or damaged while they are in their possession, to them it's not a big deal. I truly hope your friend finds your necklace and returns it to you. <3


I did some thimg to my best frainds sis and she got all mad i i felt really bad 
 i said sorry and the hate me now.

Awww ☆Emma Taco☆,
Although I don't know what you did wrong, I am certain that you are really sorry and you must have learned your lesson from this mistake. Just make sure you don't make the mistake again in the future. Trust me when I tell you that they really don't hate you even if they act like it.... hate is a very strong word. But you have to understand that they feel angry with you because they probably feel hurt.

Apologizing to them was the right thing to do. Now all you can do is give them time and space for 
them to heal. Maybe in no time, you all will be good friends again but if this doesn't happen, you have
to accept and respect them if they decide not to. Still, you can use all this as a lesson you learned and
that is not to do things that might hurt others. Now you know that this type of behavior may cause you to lose good friends.... Love you sweetie. <3


Dear Sweets*,
I lost most of my friends this year :(. It's because I dont talk to them, or I ignore them. I
 don't know what to do! :( How can I get them back?

Hello P s y c h e ♥,
I am sorry to hear this. The good thing is that you recognized why this is happening and you are taking
full responsibility for it. That is a good start :) Now the next step for you to take is to apologize to each
one of them and asked them to give you another chance. Hey...everyone deserves a second chance in
life!!!

Be prepared though that some of your former friends might have moved on and won't be interested in renewing a friendship with you again. That is their right and you'll have to respect that. But for the ones that believe like I do in giving second chances, show them how grateful you are for being your friends again by treating them with more respect. Don't make the same mistakes with them or any new friendships you'll get in the future. <333


Dear Sweets*,
I am your fan and love reading your blog. But where is Romeo?
He have not been writing for a long time.
Thank you sweets* for being an angel for the picos who needs help.
Thanks.

Hello again my dear I love Sweets*,
My dear friend Romeo has been very busy with school and real life :)

I too missed his amazing articles but we must understand that his real life requires a lot of him and that should be his priority. I just saw him a few days ago and I was very happy to see that he is doing so well. Romeo has a very special place in my heart and I wish him the very best in life <3

Know that Romeo and all the other Pico Perfect writers have full access to the blog and are always welcome to write again any time they want. :)))


Thanks for replying : ) my first friend on pico is the one who invited me to join..about 2 months ago..
she was with 3 of her closest friends in the pico parks she said she was leavign in a little but i can still
join her friends I did..but only to be rudly insulted and ditched by 2 of them 1 stayed and talked to me
but he said he didnt notice anything when i asked him whats with them.my friend has a good heart...but
to her those friends can do no wrong ;( what do i do sweets..

Dear NOMsicles,
I got to tell you this but I went through exactly the same thing you did with one of my former best friends. It is really hurtful when you are not believed by your best friend when you tell him/her how you have been treated by some of his/her other friends. It almost feels like you have to prove to them that what you are saying is true... as if you need to defend yourself.

But what I learned from that experience, and I'll share it with you now in hopes that it might help you, is that your friend does indeed have a good heart and they will always take into consideration how their relationship with each friend. I think that since they have a good friendship with these people, they assumed it is the same for everyone else. So when they hear that someone or something bad happened, it is hard for them to believe it.

Sweetie, our friends' minds are set up on how they view each person and no matter what you tell them, they are the only ones that'll decide who they want to believe and there is nothing... and believe me... nothing you can do to change their minds. The more you'll try, the more hurt you will feel.

I suggest that you keep your friendship with your good friend separated from these other friends. When you and your friend are together try to avoid any subject that has to do with them. <3


Hi Sweets!
I always go to your room with hope that i would see you, but i never did. Nevertheless, i always bring my torquiose. It seems to enjoy the presence of your pet Picolly. Hope to see you someday ^_^ 
I always visit your blog. God bless!

My dearest にゃんーちゃん,
I am sorry we haven't run into each other yet. It would be a real honor to meet you someday soon. I wasn't visiting Pico that much but I am starting to go every day now. Sometimes I just stay in my room gathering my mail and rarely go out for props. I hope I'll have more time to stay longer in the future and mingle again with my Picos.

Take care and don't forget to smile.... SuPeR LoVe YoU <333


OMG! U U U REPLIED ME..okay my prob is: No1 likes me in pico..they call me pig )':

Hi ๖ۣۜ♥|ανєи∂єя๖,
I try to answer as many letters as I can on a daily basis. At this point, I am getting around 20 Pico letters every day. Many are Picos that ask for my help but want to keep it just between us, so they receive my advice in a private letter instead of my blog.

Now coming to your problem.... some Picos can be very mean and they'll call us names. I've been called pig too so many times. But what I do is I ignore these people. Sweetie, name-calling is very common everywhere. You must not listen to them because there are only words that have no truth to them. When these people call you names... keep thinking to yourself, "I am very special because God created me!". Now, these beautiful words are the ones that are true, real, and the ones you should listen to. <3


Awwww, thank you my dearest 
ϟF r a n c eϟ  <333


I hope u will keep advice people <3 u make me feel better and not only me will feel like that everyone
will feel better with ur advice <3 i love u sweet mom<3 "Ciel Shieru"

Thank you so much my dear Ciel Shieru, If I can help at least one person a day in a big or small way, my day wasn't lived in vain <333


A Letter Of A Different Kind: 
Not all the letters or messages I receive come from friendly people.


OOOH! Lissy25,

I am truly sorry to hear that your Pico husband has divorced you. But sweetie, I think you are aiming
your anger towards the wrong person and place. What did my poor house and I ever do to your 
marriage to destroy it? But I am not mad at you for calling me "bych" :(  I know you are just letting
your anger out because you feel hurt which I totally understand. If you ever need someone to talk to I
am always waiting with an open heart. <333

Saturday, July 30, 2011

Dear Sweets* -An Angel Parrot

Written by Sweets*


Dear sweets*
I used to have a bestfriend. I used to be so close with my bestfriend but when she got her Ameba Gold,
I felt like I lost her. We often hang out now a days and I always feel left out everytime I follow her.
Now a days, I felt like I'm alone~ What should I do~? Imma fan~ :)

Dear [tC] ¢нєl ευη,
In your letter you didn't mention if your friend did anything to make you feel this way 
when she got her AG. If she was treating you the same way without AG, 
then I don't see why you two can't still be best friends.

I understand that you might feel bad seeing her with her AG items when you probably have little
or none. But sweetie, if you and she were good friends before, don't let insignificant things 
like that affect what is really important here, and that is your friendship! 
I don't think her having this AG doesn't make you less of a friend to her.

On the other hand, if she is doing something to make you feel bad when she has AG, 
then, you need to talk to her and let her know how you feel. If she is as a good friend 
as I am hoping she is, she'll respect your feelings and will most likely stop doing 
what she has been intentionally doing to make you feel bad.


:( sweets its me i feed ur pets when u left i was hacked and reported :/ i lost my account

Hello Jess☼§υη§нιηє☼!
First I want to thank you for feeding my pets <3 I am so sorry to hear you've lost your account.
I can see you have been going through rough times lately. What were you reported for? 
By being so generous as to feed my pets while I was gone shows you are a good person... 
I just don't understand why someone felt the need to report you :(

I encourage you and all the other Picos that read this to CONTINUE being kind and respectful 
Ameba Pico citizens and stay away from trouble. This way people won't try to find an excuse to 
report us. Also do not trust ANYONE with your Pico accounts.
PLEASE remember to NEVER give any personal information to anyone you meet online.


Hi Sweets* ^^
How r u doing with the happy oliver campaign ? Or the photo contest ? 
I would LOVE to see ur entry ♥ I wish there is a Pico Perfect Fan Club XD
Thanks for the amazing blog and posts.

Hello my dear ScarIett! <3
Thanks for your beautiful letter. I would love to have the time to participate in the Happy Oliver
Campaign. However these days I've been extremely busy taking care of my home, my children, 
guitar lessons, making my jewelry and hair bows for my small business, and writing for two blogs.
oooffff.... I got tired already just listing some of my daily activities... LOL.

A Pico Perfect Fan Club sounds like a great idea. I have always wanted to create a Sweets* Club
for the kind and respectful Picos. Maybe in time when I put better order to everything 
that I am juggling at the moment, I'll have the time to well plan a special club 
for all my wonderful Picos :)


Dear Ciel Shieru, glad I could help. <3


You welcome ϟ B u b l e ϟ, I saw the picture of your parrot. She was absolutely beautiful,
but can you imagine how beautiful she is now as an angel parrot? :) Smile! <3


You welcome ☆゚・Gαbriεllα・☆  sweetie! <3

мαđ нαттєя 😍 A Special Shout-Out

Written by Sweets*


This very special shout-out goes to мαđ нαттєя: from Great Britain (United Kingdom)!
For honoring me with his visit yesterday when I logged on to check my mail.
He was accompanied by his beautiful girlfriend Batman.
I love it every time I am visited by great Picos like him... it always brightens my day.

Thank you, мαđ нαттєя:!

Thursday, July 28, 2011

Dear Sweets* -Pets In Heaven

Written by Sweets*


Hi there sweet mom ,I having a promblem with my real life friend at school.
She always bully me and talk bad about me. What should i do?:{ ps love u.

Dear "Ciel Shieru",
Having someone talk bad about us is always very sad, especially when that someone 
was considered a friend. I suggest you have a serious talk with your former friend.
Ask her why she is doing this and see if she'll agree that in memory of the good friendship 
you two once had, she'll stop. If she doesn't, then you'll know she was never a really good friend.
When there is a sincere friendship between two people, the respect for each other will continue 
even after the friendship is over.

If this is the case and she continues talking about you, I wouldn't worry too much if I was you.
The people that love you and matter in your life, and that includes your real friends,
won't believe a word she has to say no matter how hard she tries to trash you. As I always say,
live a righteous life, and respect others so when rumors and gossip try to bring you down, 
you'll hold your head way up high with the dignity of knowing that you are a good person.


Dear Sweet Sweets*,
Hi my Pico ID is Caramel Mama. I have been hacked many times while playing Pico.
So i made a new account. I tell my hacked account friends I've been hacked but they say i'm lying!
Only 1 friend believes me!
Help me Sweets*!
Thanks, Caramel Mama Another lovely fan of yours

Hi Caramel Mama! :))
I don't see why you would lie about something so serious as to have had your Pico account hacked.
Your friends have to understand that a lie like that wouldn't work since you have to start all over from
zero. Maybe those friends are not really your friends as you think they are. A real friendship is based
on trust and respect. A true friend will also support you and help you out when you need help.

If they don't believe that you had your account hacked after you had explained it to them,
there is really nothing you can do to change their minds. They'll believe or not believe what they want.
I don't see a point in you trying to prove them wrong.  You know who your real friends are when you
are at your lowest and maybe this could be an eye-opener for you.

Stay true to yourself, always speak the truth, and if people don't want to believe what you have to say,
it is their problem... not yours <3


Sweets, I need your help... When pico was created, i got many friends to talk to.. 
Everytime Im online, Many of my buddies are online too! But ever since my buddies quit pico 
because its getting boring/unknown reasons, i felt the loneliness..
i just felt like im the only one left in this world.

My dearest and good buddy ☞мαηα νίиςє☜, I miss you sooo much <3
Remember that talk we had some time ago when I was feeling exactly the same way
you are feeling now? I totally understand what you are going through.

It is great when our friends share our same interests in life, but we have to keep in mind that every
head is a different world, and sometimes our friends will find other interests that will take them in
different directions. I wonder if you have been keeping in touch with any of them.
Maybe you can join them in any new things they are doing now. Who knows, you might even enjoy it.
But if that is not the case, there are thousands of Picos out there ready to be great friends if you give
them a chance.

Just last night a good friend of mine said these words to me that I will repeat to you 
in easier words so you can understand...  There was a baby chick living inside an egg
and his whole life consisted of what was inside the shell with him, he kept staying there probably
feeling safe and even content with his life. The thing was that he didn't realize that all he needed to do
was to break the shell and get out and discover the beautiful world that was waiting for him outside.

Sometimes we need to venture outside our comfort zone to discover what is waiting for us out there.
Don't stay trapped in what used to be. Your good buddies may have moved on and so you will have to
someday too. I bet that in no time after you crack that shell, you'll be surrounded by new great friends.


Dear rwrmiki:)ϟ B u b bl e ϟ and A§нŁУη~Ðσмσ ,

I know very well how hard it is to lose our loving pets.
Know that our pets are angels now and they are in a better place. They came to earth
to make us happy but they must return to our Lord when it is their time to go and rest. Our Lord loves
them so much that he will sometimes take them if he sees them suffering or needs them in heaven.

We have to be grateful for the time we had them and cherish those beautiful memories they left behind.
Be also sure that they are very happy now and they want us to be happy too.
It is OK to cry for them, but we must be strong. With time you will start feeling better and when
you are ready, you'll be able to look at their photos and talk about them with a smile on your face <3


Thank you so much ۞źαƒяα ¢αωη۞! :)
Yes, there is a time to mourn for what is gone but life goes on and we need to be strong.
Every time I am confronted by something sad in my life, I become stronger afterward. It is like 
I get an extra dose of strength and my faith increases. I also believe that everyone has something
special to contribute to helping others. A kind word, a kind gesture.... anything big or small that can bring a smile to someone's face or dry a tear will be greatly appreciated by our Lord. <3

Tuesday, July 26, 2011

Dear Sweets* -Beautiful Rabbit

Written by Sweets*


Hello my beautiful Picos, I hope you are doing great on this beautiful day!
I want to thank you for all your letters and messages and for the trust that you have placed in me
for some advice. I ask that you please be patient with me since I have been getting a lot of mail every
day. I will try my best to answer all your letters as soon as possible.


Hello sweets* =''( every day i open my pico account, i neevr experinece happiness
because almost the pico world insults me in my physical appearance. i cant take it anymore!
 i really love to play pico but the pico world dont like me =''(

My dearest Beautiful ^_^*,
Know that the people that insult you are seriously so brainless since they are being cruel to you 
based on the appearance of your Pico Avatar. These people have no sense of what true beauty is. 
They have so much ugliness in their hearts that consequently blinds them from all the beauty 
that is all around them. Can you imagine how sad this must be for them, everything they see, 
they choose to see as ugly... what an unhappy life they must be living in. In reality, we were all 
created by our loving God in his own image. God is beautiful and so we all are. 
God doesn't create "UGLY", those people are REALLY the ones that choose to be ugly 
with their behavior... what a shame!!!

There are many wonderful, caring, and loving people here in Pico. 
I am pretty sure you must know some. They are the ones that make it worth staying 
and not giving up something that you love so much. Sometimes we feel like we are alone, 
I have felt that way too many times. It seems like the world hates us... but trust me sweetie... 
it's not the world, it's "only" those hateful people that make us feel that way. 
Don't let them get to you to the point that you feel hated by the whole Pico world. 
I love you and you are beautiful and I bet there are many others that will agree with me ;)

My advice to you my sweet girl is to report these people immediately. 
Don't take into heart all the ugliness they are spilling around, I truly believe that they are not only
harassing you but they are harassing more innocent Picos out there. Giving up Pico because of them 
is not a good idea since Pico belongs to everyone. Surround yourself with friends that are really
caring and loving even if it's just a few. These good people will make it worthwhile and 
PLEASE keep in mind that YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL and YOU ARE LOVED.


Sweets i keep on getting bullied by this girl named steph her pico id:---------
she calls me a hater like on her proflie i need help and she cant stop talking about me help!
also when i try to stand up for myself she just says ''LMFAOOO NERD'' and i get really sad :/ 
and she keeps saying nobody likes me but i dont belive that i have other friends. Thanks sweets :]

My dear MR.RABBIT♡,
How sad it is that this girl doesn't realize how terrible it is to be talking about another person.
Talking bad about another human being can have awful consequences and can really affect
someone's life. I wonder if these kinds of people ever stop for a moment to see what they are doing
and can live with the guilt of knowing that they are intentionally hurting someone else. 
As I always tell my own children, if you have nothing nice to say about someone,
 just don't say anything.

I don't know how old this girl might be, but she seems to be very immature, 
and by this, I don't necessarily mean young. There are many very young kids that will behave more
maturely and intelligently than some grown-ups do. With these types of mentally immature people,
there is no way you will ever win an argument. Their minds are set up and stuck on certain behaviors
and trying to get through them is almost impossible.

My advice to you is to ignore her completely because there is no point in fighting someone 
that will not reason in a logical way. Talking to her would be like talking to a wall.... 
please don't waste your time. These people many times are like an uncomfortable itch, they itch, 
you scratch, and then they are gone. However, keep in mind that you can always report her to Ameba Pico.

I don't believe her either when she says nobody likes you, of course there are many others that do. 
What else would you still be coming back to Pico if you had no friends. Please enjoy your time
with your friends and don't let ONE person ruin it for you <3


Dear Sweets*,
Hi! I'm Gabriella and I'm a huge fan of urs. Last yr. at skul, I have 3 BFFs. We do everything together.
Even tho we fyt, we still have each other. Now this yr., only 2 of us r left. 
I'm so sad. How can I move on?

Hello ☆゚・Gαbriεllα・☆,
Isn't it wonderful to have wonderful friends in our lives!
I truly understand why you are feeling so sad. Losing a good friend is never easy. But I truly believe
that many of our friends come into our lives to serve a purpose, to help us in some way 
and they are not meant to stay. Once they serve their purpose, they must move on.

Be grateful for the time you had with this friend. This friend has touched your life in a beautiful 
way and even though you might not realize it at this time, her being part of your life, 
even if it was just for a while, has added a special blessing to make the rest of your life better. 
Every friend that comes into our lives brings with them a gift that in some way will improve
 our lives as human beings.

There are many ways you can still keep in touch with her these days. And who knows, 
maybe in the future you two can meet again. In the meantime every time you miss her, 
think of the good times you two shared and send her a blessing...
I always do that with my friends that I lost, it really helps.

And remember your friend must be gone but the memories you two shared 
will stay in your heart forever.


I'm sorry FOR that LETTER. I just wanna know if my IDOL is back again. POOR OREO. 
I have also a kitten named Chocolate. But, i don't know where is Chocolate now. i'm really sorry.
I'm happy to see that you now accept buddy requests. I send you a request. 
It's up to you if you will accept this or not.

My sweet I love Sweets*,
Chocolate really sounds like an adventurous kitten. I bet he is out there exploring the world. 
Please don't worry about Chocolate too much, he/she is probably having a great time :)
Yes, my baby Oreo left to be in Heaven. Now he is happy chasing butterflies and jumping from cloud 
to cloud. I miss him very much but I know he is in a happier place and that puts a smile 
in my heart <3

I am sooo honored by the name you have given to your Pico, thank you very much <333 
I have accepted your buddy request as a thank you for being such a wonderful and caring girl.
Please keep that loving heart of yours just the way it is... don't ever change :)


Thank you so much my dear Chihiro♡
Your words really fill me with the strength to keep trying my best to help as much as I can.
As long as God allows me and there are Picos out there looking for some kind of advice from me, 
I'll be here waiting with an open heart. God bless you and have a wonderful life <333


Ⓐⓝⓖⓔⓛ☆¢upcake
glad to hear that I could help at least a little with my article. I promise you that you'll feel better soon.
Life goes on bringing with it new blessings. <333